Slow down, why are you in a rush?

By | September 13, 2017

Should you rush a relationship? I am not a big believer in rushing a relationship at all. It may seem a bit odd, but I have learned a lot about relationships from the gents I date at Earls Court escorts. Many of them seem to rush into relationships, and from what I can tell, that is when it all starts going wrong. I have recently met a really nice man I would like to spend some time with, but he seems to be in a real rush to get things going, but I am not, I just want to spend some time getting to know him first of all.

What are the advantages of getting to know someone? The first thing is that you find out what you like about them, and what you don’t like about them. Then you have to ask yourself if you can live with their niggly little faults and all of the things which annoy you. So far, things are going great, but I am not ready to give up my job at Earls Courts escorts and just move in with this guy. It is tough to find a good job escorting in London, and I really like working for Earls Court escorts.

On tip of that, you find out what someone is like with money. It may seem silly, but I grew up with a mom who had huge financial problems all of the time, so I really look after my money. Having been able to buy my own home means a lot to me, and I am not going to give up on that in a hurry at all. We seem to have the same values, but as he has been married, I want to make sure that he would be able to commit to our relationship on a financial level as well.

Commitment is super important. I have been in a lot of relationships where the guy thought that the idea of commitment meant having dinner together twice a week. Don’t get me wrong, but that is not my idea of commitment. Far too many of the gents I date at Earls Court escorts treat their partners like that, and I am not going to go down that road. To me, it means that you are together on all levels of life, and share everything that life throws at you. That is what love is all about.

You can probably tell that I have come from a broken home. When I first started to explain all of this to my boyfriend, I think that he thought I was perhaps being a but too deep, but it was important to me to tell him what I am all about. It can be very liberating to bare your soul to someone before you rush into a relationship. Most people would probably not think so of a girl from Earls Court escorts, but I do like to think about things. Yes, I am in love, but for once in my life, I am not going to let my heart rule my head.